How to make my boyfriend lovey dovey again?

hi, im sorry if this sounds harsh but tbh i really think you need to move on :( you said that you have broken up 3 times or more? this relationship doesnt sound healthy, he's making you sad and theres no communication in ur relationship. And in a relationship you shouldnt have to 'get back' at your other half. Just think about when serious issues come along, ur already breaking up over txt messages :/... sorry